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Thursday, March 21, 2013
Hi Mr bloggy,
4 more days and i'll be heading to Redang with my boy. However, here i am feeling this way. Just felt that i have made another wrong choice of getting into another redundant relationship. Why on earth i get myself into this kind of shit over and over again? I just like to take my relationship into this kind of games. Sometimes, i wonder has i growth up and ready for a relationship. I always wanted a long and lasting relationship but some how those guys that i get are just not my type of guys that i'm looking for eventually.
After one and another relationship, i would regret on breaking up with them and hope that i'm in their arms all over again. To be honest, Vin is still the best guy that i ever had for all of my boyfriends. Including the current one, Vin is always there for me despite anything that happened. He is someone that can really take good care of his gf and never lay hands on me. Like he said, he have beaten up his ex before but he has never laid hand on my ever before. This would show that how much i mean to him and how much he loves me. It was my fault for abandon him for someone that is selfish and doesn't know how to treat his gf right.
要怪就怪我被你的甜言密语骗去了。 要怪就怪我自己想要点新鲜感，然后喜欢了陪人。 税然你没有钱，可是直少你对我的爱是真的。 对我也很好，家人对我也不错，每天要去你的家就去，不用怕看人家的脸色。有事后会想起在你家过夜的时，你紧紧的抱着我睡觉。刻天起来看到的人是你。这种感觉正的很好。 你每次的对我好我却把它当成利索当然的，只到今天才发现已经太迟了。 先在只能从回忆里去想像我们有过的好日子。谢谢你对我的好，我知道我在也不会找到比你更贴心的男朋友了。
Let's not talk about the past, i need to look forward and try not to repeat the same mistake that i always made. But, whenever i says that i would always do the same things over and over again. Falling into the same hole every time despite me knowing myself.
Just like last night, you just made me know you even more and better. Just feel that you're someone that is so selfish for yourself and not even putting your gf into consideration. You know what is going wrong but you choose not to care and get blur. Is this how you treat your ex's too? Now i know what's the reason for them breaking up with you. Everything you said to me wasn't true. You said you were a sweet person that would make your gf melts, yea sad to say i don't feel it at all but rather i feel rather insecure and intimidated by your actions. You even laid hands on me the other day at your place, you might thinks that you're just playing around but do you know how much force you 're using? Please, i'm your gf. Do you even know how to treat you gf right? i'm not saying you need to treat me like a princess but at least you have to respect me and not laid hands on your gf. None of my ex have ever laid hands on me, even vin who has a very hot-tempered has never laid his hands on me because he respect me as his gf.
Maybe, i can't blame you for being selfish and not sensible enough to treat you gf like what i expected because from your family i can see that you're someone that is forced to be selfish as you're fighting for a stand in the family and it has became a habit when you yourself did not realise.
I have to learn that i can't expect the same treatment from different people because they ain't the same and i have to try to get used to them and know that i have to learn to expect lesser.
Seems like this is a pretty long post, since it's already long i shall add something that is meaningful that i should learn from it. And vin have liked the link in my facebook.
Here you go..
ARE YOU WITH THE RIGHT
PARTNER?
During a seminar, a woman asked," How do I
know if I am with the right person?"
The author then
noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, "It
depends. Is that your partner?" In all seriousness, she answered "How
do you know?" Let me answer this question because the chances are good
that it's weighing on your mind
replied the author.
Here's the answer.
Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning;
you
fall in love with your partner. You anticipate
their calls,
want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies.
Falling in love wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and
spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called
"falling" in love.
People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of
my feet."Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing
there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.
Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous
experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of
love fades. It's a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.
Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if
they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your
spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of
this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference
between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry
subsequent stage.
At this point, you and/or your partner might start
asking, "Am I with the right person?" And as you reflect on the
euphoria of the love you once had, you
may begin to desire that experience with someone
else. This is when relationships breakdown.
The key to succeeding in a relationship is not
finding the right person; it's learning to love the person you found.
People blame their partners for their unhappiness
and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes
and sizes.
Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people
turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the
answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within
it.
I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with
someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the
same situation a few years later.
Because (listen carefully to this):
The key to succeeding in a Relationship is not
finding the right person; it's learning to love the Person you found.
SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous
experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort,
and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know
WHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about
it.
Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things
you can do (with or without your partner), Just as there are physical laws Of
the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. If you
know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable.
Love is therefore a "decision". Not just
a feeling.
Remember this always: God determines who walks into
your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay,
and who you refuse to let GO! ♥
♥
Thursday, March 21, 2013
Hi Mr bloggy,
4 more days and i'll be heading to Redang with my boy. However, here i am feeling this way. Just felt that i have made another wrong choice of getting into another redundant relationship. Why on earth i get myself into this kind of shit over and over again? I just like to take my relationship into this kind of games. Sometimes, i wonder has i growth up and ready for a relationship. I always wanted a long and lasting relationship but some how those guys that i get are just not my type of guys that i'm looking for eventually.
After one and another relationship, i would regret on breaking up with them and hope that i'm in their arms all over again. To be honest, Vin is still the best guy that i ever had for all of my boyfriends. Including the current one, Vin is always there for me despite anything that happened. He is someone that can really take good care of his gf and never lay hands on me. Like he said, he have beaten up his ex before but he has never laid hand on my ever before. This would show that how much i mean to him and how much he loves me. It was my fault for abandon him for someone that is selfish and doesn't know how to treat his gf right.
要怪就怪我被你的甜言密语骗去了。 要怪就怪我自己想要点新鲜感，然后喜欢了陪人。 税然你没有钱，可是直少你对我的爱是真的。 对我也很好，家人对我也不错，每天要去你的家就去，不用怕看人家的脸色。有事后会想起在你家过夜的时，你紧紧的抱着我睡觉。刻天起来看到的人是你。这种感觉正的很好。 你每次的对我好我却把它当成利索当然的，只到今天才发现已经太迟了。 先在只能从回忆里去想像我们有过的好日子。谢谢你对我的好，我知道我在也不会找到比你更贴心的男朋友了。
Let's not talk about the past, i need to look forward and try not to repeat the same mistake that i always made. But, whenever i says that i would always do the same things over and over again. Falling into the same hole every time despite me knowing myself.
Just like last night, you just made me know you even more and better. Just feel that you're someone that is so selfish for yourself and not even putting your gf into consideration. You know what is going wrong but you choose not to care and get blur. Is this how you treat your ex's too? Now i know what's the reason for them breaking up with you. Everything you said to me wasn't true. You said you were a sweet person that would make your gf melts, yea sad to say i don't feel it at all but rather i feel rather insecure and intimidated by your actions. You even laid hands on me the other day at your place, you might thinks that you're just playing around but do you know how much force you 're using? Please, i'm your gf. Do you even know how to treat you gf right? i'm not saying you need to treat me like a princess but at least you have to respect me and not laid hands on your gf. None of my ex have ever laid hands on me, even vin who has a very hot-tempered has never laid his hands on me because he respect me as his gf.
Maybe, i can't blame you for being selfish and not sensible enough to treat you gf like what i expected because from your family i can see that you're someone that is forced to be selfish as you're fighting for a stand in the family and it has became a habit when you yourself did not realise.
I have to learn that i can't expect the same treatment from different people because they ain't the same and i have to try to get used to them and know that i have to learn to expect lesser.
Seems like this is a pretty long post, since it's already long i shall add something that is meaningful that i should learn from it. And vin have liked the link in my facebook.
Here you go..
ARE YOU WITH THE RIGHT
PARTNER?
During a seminar, a woman asked," How do I
know if I am with the right person?"
The author then
noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, "It
depends. Is that your partner?" In all seriousness, she answered "How
do you know?" Let me answer this question because the chances are good
that it's weighing on your mind
replied the author.
Here's the answer.
Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning;
you
fall in love with your partner. You anticipate
their calls,
want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies.
Falling in love wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and
spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called
"falling" in love.
People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of
my feet."Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing
there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.
Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous
experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of
love fades. It's a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.
Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if
they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your
spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of
this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference
between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry
subsequent stage.
At this point, you and/or your partner might start
asking, "Am I with the right person?" And as you reflect on the
euphoria of the love you once had, you
may begin to desire that experience with someone
else. This is when relationships breakdown.
The key to succeeding in a relationship is not
finding the right person; it's learning to love the person you found.
People blame their partners for their unhappiness
and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes
and sizes.
Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people
turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the
answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within
it.
I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with
someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the
same situation a few years later.
Because (listen carefully to this):
The key to succeeding in a Relationship is not
finding the right person; it's learning to love the Person you found.
SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous
experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort,
and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know
WHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about
it.
Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things
you can do (with or without your partner), Just as there are physical laws Of
the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. If you
know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable.
Love is therefore a "decision". Not just
a feeling.
Remember this always: God determines who walks into
your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay,
and who you refuse to let GO! ♥
